Today's Meditation(s): Likewise, life is an indifferent, but what we make of life isn’t indifferent. So, when you’re told that even these things are indifferents, that’s not a reason for carelessness; and when you’re urged to take care, that’s not a reason for debasing yourselves and placing value on material things.  Epictetus, Discourses 2.6.1 Indifferents are things without moral import. Not things which have no effect on my life. The car about to hit me head on? Indifferent to my moral standing. Important to my continued living. The rule is that I should not sacrifice the more important (virtue) for the less (externals). If I can avoid the oncoming car without selling my soul, I may (and probably should) turn, brake, veer, etc. And if I can only save myself by killing another person? There is the test.

Today's Meditation(s): Discourses by Epictetus, 2.2.21a, 2.2.24b-2.2.25a Waterfield:   "Make my mind capable of adapting itself to whatever happens." ...if circumstances test you in a different way, what will you say or do? Remember this general principle, then, and you’ll never be short of advice. Hard:   "Ensure that my mind will be able to adapt itself to whatever come about." If the circumstances should dictate something different, what will you say, what will you do? Keep this general principle in mind, then, and you’ll never be in need of advice. Long:   "Enable my mind to adapt itself to whatever comes." For if circumstances dictate something different, what will you say or what will you do? Bear in mind, therefore, this general principle and you will not be at a loss for a suggestion. Oldfather:  "Well, form my mind so as to accommodate itself to any event." For if circumstances require something else, what will you say or what will y...

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations, 9.10 (Hicks and Hicks) Even if it seems counterproductive now, reason will out. Work to give it the time it needs to let passion pass and let the elephant be swayed. That's an important duty.

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations, 9.7 (Hicks and Hicks) Give my reason a chance , I take it. The elephant leads....

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations, 9.6 (Hicks and Hicks) Doing these things will be enough to lead to the tranquility I am searching for. Do them.

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations, 9.4 (Hicks and Hicks) No one does evil willingly and knowingly. They are vicious because they misunderstand what virtue is and why it's important. If they knew they'd choose good. 

Today's Meditation(s): Those years feel exhausting when you’re in them. Loud. Sticky. Chaotic. You count down the minutes to bedtime. You look forward to it being quiet. You tell yourself that, one day, things will calm down. And then one day, they do. The house gets quiet. Those little stools disappear. The chaos organizes itself into independence. Now, you miss what you just rushed through. 260514 Daily Dad The days of tiny stools are behind me now. Now, instead, I young adults for whom I do my best to exemplify virtue and teach them thereof. It's so different, but so rewarding to see it take hold. My kids are good people and I'm proud of them.

Today's Meditation(s): It must be bewildering to be a kid. The world is a confusing and illogical place…and so little of it is explained to them at first. And their brains are still developing, to boot. Imagine what things would feel like if you didn’t have object permanence (and kids don’t until they’re around a year old)! Imagine falling asleep in the car or in the stroller and waking up hours later, alone in a pitch-black room. Imagine you’ve never been in a classroom and sat at something called a “desk” for the entire day…and then suddenly this is your life. Imagine learning that, in English, there are three words that sound the same but mean totally different things (“Mary,” “merry,” and “marry”—although this may depend on your accent) and that this is not at all uncommon. Imagine you spent most of your existence in the safe bubble of your parents’ care and then suddenly you’re a teenager and there are real—even life-or-death—consequences to so much of what you want to do. The...

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations , 8.59 (Hicks and Hicks) Fix it or hush. No complaining about something I can fix but haven't, through inability or laziness.

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations , 8.56 (Hicks and Hicks) What a positive way to view it.

Today's Meditation(s): Meditations , 8.55 (Hicks and Hicks) One of those passages that would drive nonStoics nuts. It's easy to see how someone would interpret this as ignoring the 'harm' caused to third-parties by one's wickedness. All based on a misunderstanding of harm, on thinking harm is anything other than giving up my virtue.